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WHAT IS THE OPPORTUNITY IN A PLATEAU?
There are as many paths to losing weight through lifestyle change as there are patients who have ever tried. For most To Life! participants, one event common to many is the "plateau", i.e., that time when your weight loss levels out. It is most always an uninvited event, occurring not when you expected it or wanted it. What is the nature of a plateau? Once we have established that the reason is not medical, i.e., a new thyroid problem, or a medication change that has led to weight gain, we can have a conversation about what might be going on. Here are two common types of plateaus that occur in the To Life!™ Program:
The first I would call the "I'm feeling so good" plateau. You've come into the program, lost a significant amount of weight, and you're really feeling better. You've got more energy, you're lighter on your feet, and you've dropped down at least a size or two. And, of course, people are starting to tell you how great you look. However, you have stopped losing weight. When this happens, here is my general approach:
· Perhaps your exercise program is helping you to increase muscle mass while you are losing body fat. You feel better, your clothes are looser, but the all powerful scale is not changing. A review of the entire To Life! technology often reveals what we need to do next.
· Frequently patients are just happy with how they look and feel, they know they have more weight to lose, but they secretly would just like to take a break for a while before cranking up again. No one loses weight in a straight line. So dividing it up into pieces is often a great idea. Picking a restart date and sticking to it helps avoid waking up every morning with the pressure of ‘having to get started again'.
Let's call the second type of plateau of "I'm feeling overwhelmed" plateau. In this circumstance you've been motoring right along in your program, working on your lifestyle change techniques, and then WHAM! something happens. It doesn't really matter if it's about relationship, money, job stress, new physical problems, etc. Something occurs and suddenly you have lost your edge. What is the approach?
What you can do about it:
· Apply the Success Equation. Always remember that success in weight management is the sum of what you have lost plus what you have not gained. So you've probably done a lot better than you would have in the past, and no doubt what you've done is the best you could do and much better than you used to do.
· Change your conversation: You are here, in a program that works. You know what to do because you've already been practicing your lifestyle change techniques. You are not the same person who started this program.
· Return to your To Life! workbook and your Promise Sheets. Review what you initially said you would do. If you have kept your initial promises and are still keeping them, pick the next thing in nutrition and exercise you need to do, make a promise to yourself, and get started.
· Check your record keeping and portion sizes! These are the two pieces of lifestyle change technique that lead to the most weight loss, and are also the first things to get ‘dropped out' when times get tough. You must, even just occasionally, weight and measure portions, just to make sure you are not sabotaging yourself.
· Get support. Communicate with the people who are most important to you in your personal life about what you are doing, why you are doing it, and how they can assist you. Can your spouse or the kids exercise with you? Have you shown your family your notebook? Are you becoming the lifestyle change coach in your own family? Also, your To Life! team is here to help you. Do you need some counseling? Do you need help with record keeping? Do you need another private appointment with a dietitian or the personal trainer? Go to the person who can help you get moving ahead.
Whether it is just time for a little break before getting started again, or time for a more aggressive or insightful intervention, remember that in an epidemic there is no real cure, but there can be successful management. A plateau is just one of the interesting, manageable stops we make along the way. It is an opportunity for learning, self-compassion, and re-commitment. Use your system, ask for what you need, don't settle for what you get, and you will be just fine.
To Life!
Dr. Pincus |
Mind-Body
REINFORCEMENTS
Starting is hard. Staying with it is even harder! We get off track in our efforts to change when the payoff isn't worth the price we have to pay to get it. Health is a reward in and of itself, as is lower numbers on the scale and lower sizes on the labels. But sometimes we need help learning to change what we use for rewards. For most of us, food has served as a primary source of reinforcement. Now, however, it doesn't seem quite right to reward ourselves for a great workout with a Twinkie.
Reinforcement works best if served a bit randomly, but frequently enough to keep its power to motivate. It can take the form of:
§ A verbal pat on the back - from ourselves or others
§ An article of new clothing at the new, lower size
§ A monetary contribution to your "weekend getaway fund" you make with each new level of success
§ A jar of affirmations you have written down, cut out, and draw from when celebration is in order
§ A jelly donut
OK, the last one was just to see if you are paying attention. And since you are, reach around and pat yourself on the back. Do it with each success and the success will keep coming.
Steve Heath, Ph. D.
IMPORTANT ANNOUNCEMENTS!!!
A number of former To Life! patients have asked Dr. Pincus to see them from time to time in the office, for a lifestyle change centered primary care visit. If you have insurance, you will need your copayment, and that should do it. If you would like to come back into the program for a refresher, e.g., for three months or six months, he would be happy to discuss that with you. If you would like to repeat the Saturday workshop without committing to anything else, please come join us! We have cut the $350 price by half, to $175. We are here to support you, so please give us a call.
Thanks,
Misty Martinez
Office Manager |